Dating a nice guy no chemistry
Except the same principle applies: we want what we can’t have.And we can deliberately invoke that in the people we’re dating. What makes them work the steep drops, the loops, corkscrews and hard banking turns, it’s the loooooong build-up at the beginning.Sexual tension – deliberately building and then frustrating sexual interest – is all about the lead-up.This is the key to sexual tension: the build up and then the release. Think of it like a pressurized tank of gas: it has an emergency release valve.This is the beginning of the body’s fear response – they’re getting ready to go into fight-or-flight mode.
Warm breath on the neck – perhaps accompanied by “you smell nice” can make the difference between a chaste kiss and being grabbed by the back of your favorite head for major make-outs.
It’s the building of expectations that makes the sudden drop immediately afterwards so satisfying; just launching into the ride – the way some coasters do – is less satisfying.